Quick Guide to Writing Puisi Cinta

In this day and age, it comes as a real surprise when you get a puisi cinta (love poem). After all, nobody makes them anymore. But just because a puisi cinta is unusual does not mean that it is not appreciated.

Thinking of making one for your love? There are really no hard and fast rules when it comes to making a poem about love. It’s really just a matter of putting your passion down in writing to show your true feelings.

Getting started with Puisi Cinta

A puisi cinta needs to truly reflect how you are feeling so take the time to reminisce about the most memorable days you can remember with or about your love. If you’re going to be making one, for instance, to profess your undying love, then think back on the time you first met that special person.

It can be that first moment when your eyes met or your hands grazed each others. It can also be that one moment that your heart both skipped a beat and stopped at the same time. Turn to these powerful memories and emotions within you to help you find the words for your puisi cinta.

Get writing

Emotions can be quite tricky to put into words for a puisi cinta sometimes so just let everything out and start writing. Think of it as free writing. Just jot down everything you are thinking at the moment about your love for a couple of minutes.

When you’re done, look at what you’ve written and single out lines or sections that you feel reflect what you truly want to say in your poem. Don’t worry about rhymes at this point. Just let the words flow to help you get started on that passionate puisi cinta of yours.

Should you use big words?

Big words in a puisi cinta will not necessarily make you look big in the eyes of your love. That’s why it is ok to use simple words. Sometimes though, big words are required to truly put meaning into what you’re feeling. If that’s the case, feel free to use big words. But not too much. You’re making a puisi cinta, not finishing your thesis.

Then again, if your love is of the academic type, then big words might just be your ticket to getting that poem accepted. To guide you on using big words though, just gauge whatever you feel will work best on your love. You don’t want to make the effort to impress them only to be shot down because your puisi cinta felt pretentious.

The medium is the message

How you deliver your puisi cinta will also make an impact on the message you want to send across so look for ingenious ways. Whatever you choose though, the idea is to add in an element of surprise or to choose a theme that they really, really like. This will ensure that you have their attention, ultimately setting the mood for you to give your poem to your love.

Writing a poem is a sweet gesture and more often than not elicits the response you’re looking for. So don’t be afraid. If your love was worth anything anyway, then it is worth writing them puisi cinta.

Let these Wanita be the sunshine of your life…

The dating scene can become really frustrating that you wish there was a manual on the types of wanita. Unfortunately, dating does not come with hard, fast rules.

However, one can always use a guide on the types of wanita. There are groups of women who make good dates because of their outstanding personalities.

1. Wanita Berpendirian

This type of women know what they want, especially when it comes to dating. The determined and headstrong alpha female is an achiever in almost anything. She will not waste time with one man because she knows that she is attractive to many.

Dating wanita berpendirian is quite a task.  She expects nothing less than above average so you better put your best foot forward. Dating Wanita berpendirian is a great experience because you will be amazed by their independence, determination, and confidence.

2. Wanita Sofistikated

Wanita sofistikated never step out of the house with disheveled hair. When they enter the room, all eyes are on them. This chick believes that the outward appearance is a reflection of the inner state.

They tend to be dismissed as shallow and vain but really, their appearance is only a part of their personality. They can be funny, spontaneous and intelligent too. If you date the sophisticated chick, you will be the object of everyone’s envy.

3. Wanita Artistik

Now this one is interesting. Just by hearing the label, you already know that this type of wanita dabbles into anything related to art painting, literature, graphic design, theater, or film.

Their idea of a memorable date is a day of gallery hopping and attending play premieres. Dating wanita artistik will really be a unique experience because this girl is actually intellectual and has a lot to say about current events.

4. Wanita Sihat

This type of wanita has a big reservoir of energy. Like the wanita sofistikated, wanita sihat likes to take care of herself. Only this time, she does it in the gym or the sports track. This fitness buff sports a toned physique and is always watching what goes inside her mouth. Again, you will be the envy of many when you date this awek. Plus, her discipline and willpower to lead a healthy lifestyle can be infectious.

5. Wanita Domestik

The domestik diva will remind you of your mother. She likes to cook and tend to her abode and garden. Her values are very traditional, which makes her the ideal marrying type. Dating these type of wanita will ensure that your stomach will always be full. You will be one lucky man too because she’s constantly looking out for your well-being, just like your mom.

6. Wanita Romantis

Now, don’t be scared. Wanita romantis is not always into flowers and mushy love letters. This type of wanita are the ideal dating types because they’re always careful not to fall into typical relationship traps. She’s very loving and always makes an effort to communicate with you.

7. Wanita Kawan Baik

Wanita kawan baik is one who can also be a friend. With the best friend type of woman, you can do the same activities you do with your friends and she won’t even complain about food trips, billiards, badminton, hiking, running, or even kopi session. She’s spontaneous and up for anything, just like your best buddy.

Remember, dating is an art that can only be mastered through experience. If you know which type of wanita to go for, it will not be much of a hurdle for you.

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Translate Malay to English Examples

Apa khabar? – How are you?

Aku cinta kamu – I love you

Saya suka translator ini – I love this translator

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Cinta, or love in English, no matter how cliché and icky it sounds, is something that every human craves. To love and be loved seems to be written in our DNA, perhaps as a biological mechanism to ensure the survival of the human race.

If you’re in a relationship with an awek, you’re probably very much in love with her. You’ve probably also said “Aku Cinta padamu” to your awek a million times.

“Aku Cinta padamu” is three words that an awek melayu will never get sick of hearing. They will love it if you can say it at least once a day. The more the better.

However, many people and countless of songs have argued that words alone are not enough to show that you love her. You have to do something more than words to prove your love.

Perhaps they’re right. You have nothing to lose and more to gain by performing actions that show your love. Your relationship will be stronger and she’ll love you more.

So what else can you do besides saying “aku cinta kamu” to show that you love your awek?

Let’s take a look at the 7 simple ways you can do to prove your cinta sejati.

1.  Give her your full attention

Whenever your awek talks to you, give her your full attention. Stop messing with your mobile phone, stop playing your ps3 and stop watching the television.  Look her in the eyes and listen to her as if she’s the last woman on earth.

2. Write her a puisi Cinta

Women simply loves poem. You don’t have to be Shakespeare to write a poem that she’ll love. Just write what comes to your mind, or search for puisi cinta or kata cinta online. Write the poem on a card and put it at a hidden place where she can find.

3.  Read to her puisi Cinta

Alternatively, you can read the love poem to her. Take her to some place quiet and read her the puisi cinta. I guarantee she’ll melt at your knees.

4. Sing to her lagu cinta

If you hate poems, you can do what we Malays do best – singing love songs. There are lots of lagu melayu  jiwang  for you to choose, preferably the latest ones. Be careful not to choose lagu putus cinta or lagu frust menonggeng. You want to celebrate love, not cry over it.

5. Watch Cinta Movie together

We men love action movies and will never in our life will consider watching a sappy love movie. However, women are different. They need love movies like they need food. So give them want they want and watch cinta movie with them.

6. Surprise her with gifts

Awek loves suprises. One way to surprise her is to give her gifts when she least expect it. You don’t have to spend a bomb to buy her gifts. In fact, simple and cheap gifts will have the best effect. Some examples are flowers, cookies and a cute keychain.

By surprising her with gifts, you’re telling that she’s always on your mind even when she’s not around you.

7. Thank God that you’re together

This is one is a killer. Take her to some place romantic where the sun sets, look up at the sky, and thank God that both of you are together. Thank God that you found her and for giving you the gift of cinta sejati. Make sure you’re sincere. You don’t want to incur the wrath of God and strike you with a flash of lightning.

Saying aku cinta padamu to your awek may not be enough to prove your love. Like what the famous cliché asserts: Actions speak louder than words. And these are the 7 actions you can start today to prove your cinta sejati.

If you’re looking for awek melayu 3gp, you should check out this video that will shock the hell out of you. This shocking awek melayu 3gp video is so popular that it has garnered more than 200,000 views. Before you read on, I suggest you watch this video that was posted some time ago at Metacafe. Turn up the volume and be prepared to get shocked.

Why this Awek Melayu 3gp is shocking

What is shocking about this 3gp awek melayu video is that the video has nothing to do with its title “Awek Melayu kena Raba”. In English, this means “Malay woman gets touched” or “Malay woman molested.”

If you watch the entire 3gp video, you’ll find that there is no touching going on. Instead, the video shows a typical slideshow of awek melayu images which are probably ripped off from some awek melayu blog.  No relation exists at all between the title and the video’s content.

Awek Melayu 3gp Title Misleads

Perhaps the uploader wants to attract views and therefore gives the awek melayu 3gp an enticing title. If this is the case, then the uploader is cunningly smart. He knows that there are lots of horny men looking for such hot awek melayu video, and he uses this knowledge to his advantage.

An unsuspecting viewer will probably get pissed after watching the video since the awek melayu 3gp video isn’t the kind of awek melayu 3gp he’s expecting. He will hit the “back” button while muttering some expletives at the uploader.

Another viewer will watch the entire awek melayu 3gp video expecting some hot awek action and when he doesn’t get what he expect, he’ll click on the link under the video which he think will lead him to what he’s looking for.

And this is the click that the uploader really wants.  He gets traffic to his website by using a misleading title. Not so ethical but it works. How well the traffic converts is another issue, but traffic by trickery is till traffic.

Traffic by Trickery

If you search youtube or any mainstream video sharing site with hot keywords such as awek melayu 3gp or awek melayu boleh,  you’ll be surprised to find many videos that employ traffic by trickery.

You’ll find titles such as:

Gadis Melayu Tudung Berbogel

Awek melayu bertudung kena isap tetek

Video Lucah 3gp Melayu Bogel

Aksi Awek Melayu Bogel Melampau Skodeng

You get the drift. Not the kind of titles you’ll like your mum to read.

Covert Copywriting

One of the basic copywriting techniques is to have a great title and a headline that will attract readers. In one way or another, these video titles adhere to this basic technique but I won’t call it copywriting. I’ll call it covert copywriting.

This bastardized version of copywriting has been around of ages, and I’ve seen even bread-and-butter businesses employing such tactics. A video titled “Awek Melayu Kena Main dengan Anjing” will surely get you hordes of traffic, but I doubt you’ll have much customers.

What you’ll get are angry readers and viewers who will curse you to no end.

Farhan Salleh is a guest writer who is fascinated with awek melayu. He swears he has never watched a hot awek melayu 3gp, and hopes that people will stop uploading such disgracing videos.

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If you’re looking to seduce wanita melayu, then you’ll want to read the following 3 tricks. You’ll learn how you can seduce wanita melayu even if you have never dated one in your entire life.

What Seducing Wanita Melayu Means

Before you proceed, you’ll have to be clear on what seduction is. Seduction can mean many things to different people. For the purpose of this article, seduction here means being successful and being able repeat this success with any wanita melayu.

The aim is not get them to bed and take 3gp video melayu of wanita melayu, you sick pervert. The aim is to make her fall for you so that you can have a meaningful and fulfilling relationship with her.

Following are the 3 tricks to seduce wanita melayu.

1. Be Cool and Stylish

You don’t have to be as handsome as Malaysia’s artis melayu Anuar Zain or Hollywood John Travolta in order to seduce wanita melayu. But you definitely want to look cool and stylish like these artis.

You can look like an orang utan’s ass but if you can portray that you look cool and in tune with the current men’s fashion, malay women and women in general will be attracted to you like ants to diabetic urine.

You should always do a “cool” check whenever you’re around wanita melayu. Always ask yourself before you do something. Will Anuar Zain or John Travolta do this?

2. Be Confident and Comfortable

Don’t be uptight and nervous around gadis melayu. Relax and look at things in perspective. She’s only human after all and not a hungry lioness.

The worse that can happen is her leaving you alone for the rest of the night. But who gives a shit if she does? There’s plenty of wanita melayu cun out there for you to meet and seduce.

So, be comfortable. When you’re comfortable, she’ll be comfortable too. Once she’ll comfortable, she’ll be more open to your next move and suggestions.

3. Look Smart

Women are generally attracted to men who are smart. Perhaps it’s nature’s way to ensure the survival of the human race. You can use this knowledge to your advantage even if you don’t have a degree or have never completed sekolah rendah.

What really matters is that you look smart. There are two ways to fool women into thinking that you are smart.

First, always have an opinion on any issue but never offer your opinion unless she asks for it. And it doesn’t matter if your opinion sounds stupid. As long as you have an opinion you’ll telling her that you can think for yourself and indirectly telling her that you are smart.

Second, if a wanita melayu says something factually wrong, tell her. If she insists that she’s right, then don’t dwell on it. By not insisting that she’s wrong, you’re subtly showing her that you’re smarter than her.

So these are the 3 dirty tricks you can use to seduce wanita melayu. By following these tricks you’ll find that you will have more success with women and that you’ll no longer have to spend your Saturday evening with your pet cat.

Mat RomeoX is a guest writer who has dated many awek in his lelaki nakal hey days. He’s currently, according to him, dating the most beautiful wanita melayu on the planet.

Warning: Avoid these Awek

I’m sure most Malay Men would love to date awek cun, awek hot or even an awek tudung. But no matter how hot, comel or cun the awek is, if she belongs to one of the 13 types, you should not date her.

In a past article we look at 8 types of awek melayu you should avoid dating. Here we will look at 5 more you should give the finger.

1. Awek Bodoh

Awek bodoh likes to talk a lot, but what comes out of her mouth is rubbish. She is a gossip-mongerer and a backstabber.

You can’t talk anything important to this kind of gadis as she does not seem to have basic listening and comprehension skills. Many minah rempit belongs to this category.

2. Awek Anak Emas

Awek anak emas is rich, self-centered and selfish. She believes that the world revolves around her and that she is better than everyone. She believes she is better than you and will clearly tell you so.

You do want to date such a selfish woman.

3. Awek Kebudak-budakkan

This cousin of awek gersang is emotional and ultra-sensitive. She’ll cry a lot, often at menial things. Any comment or criticism will upset her and make her weep.

Dating this kind of awek is frustrating and tiring. You’ll have to apologize to her many times even if you do nothing wrong.

Don’t ever get serious with awek kebudak-budakkan. If you ever try to leave her, she will blame you and attempt to commit suicide.

4. Awek Mulut Murai

Awek mulut murai, like awek bodoh, loves to talk. But awek mult murai is smarter, cynical and has a sharper tongue. She will comment and criticize everything and anything that is happening around her.

She does not value your opinion and thinks that she is always right.

Dump this awek.

5. Awek Sundal

Awek sundal is flirtatious and sleeps around with men. Devoid of any melayu boleh spirit, she uses her sexuality to attract men to suit her desires, which are usually money and power.

This awek sundal will dump you like a bad 3gp video once she finds that you no longer serve her purpose.

So these are the 5 additional awek melayu you should avoid dating or get into a relationship with. These women have the potential to break you heart and ruin your life. Save yourself the trouble and don’t even bother to entertain these types of awek.

There are many other malay women that deserve your attention and your love.

Do you know of any other types of awek melayu that we should avoid? If you do please tell us the type of awek in the comments below.

Fikirkan Boleh

“Engkaulah apa kau fikirkan. Terkandung dalam pemikiran. Kau fikir boleh melakukan. Fikirkan boleh.”
- Malaysia’s Fikirkan Boleh song

Boleh and Tak Boleh are the two most powerful and influential Malay words that determine success or failure in whatever you do in your life. Boleh and Tak Boleh grants you meaning in whatever task you undertake, and directy shape your life. Boleh grants you victory, Tak Boleh grants you defeat.

Success or Failure?

Do you want Success or do you want Failure? When you say Boleh, you speak of victory. You will achieve success in whatever you do despite what others say. Many famous and rich people all over the world can confirm that their road to success was paved with people who say: Kau Tak Boleh.

But these successful people knew better and ignored them. These successful people listen to themselves and say: Aku Boleh.

Listen to Yourself

The most important people you should listen to every day is yourself. Not your friends. Not your colleagues. Not your parents. You should reflect on your goals in life and constantly check that you are heading towards these goals. You should be wary of people who will distract you from your goals. They will say: Kau tak boleh. Lupakan saja hasrat kau tu. Jangan nak berangan Mat Jenin.

And you will ignore these distractors and say to yourself: Aku boleh. Hari ini aku langkah setapak lagi ke arah kejayaan!”

Ignore The Scheming Distractors

Sometimes the distractors will coerce you to abandon your goals. They will bribe you with vices like money and sex, or they will threaten you with physical violence so that you cower in defeat. You should ignore these scheming distractors and listen to yourself, and say: Aku Boleh.

Every morning you should visualize victory. Before you sleep you must visualize success. You must imagine what it feels like to attain success, and you must wholeheartedly believe that you can achieve success. This Aku Boleh attitude and constant positive reaffirmation will pave your way to success.

Your Worst Enemy

You can drive victory within yourself but you can also drive failure within yourself if you are not wary. The most dangerous thing that can totally destroy your road to success is letting Aku tak Boleh creeps into your mind. If this happens, you should immediately reaffirm your goals and tell yourself repeatedly: Aku Boleh.

Boleh and Tak boleh – the two most powerful words that drive victory or defeat. Two simple bahasa melayu words you can utter to choose success or failure.

I choose success.

I choose Aku Boleh!

The Hypnotic Quality of P. Ramlee Movies

This may sound cliché. One can never get tired or bored watching P. Ramlee movies. No matter how many reruns you watch the Bujang Lapok series, you’ll never get sick of them. His movies are so entertaining and hypnotic that whenever a P.Ramlee movie is aired on TV, you’d rather watch it than watch a multi-million-dollars Hollywood movie.

P. Ramlee’s Struggle

You’ve probably watched the recently-aired and controversial documentary that reveals P. Ramlee’s struggle during his later years. You’re probably angry and frustrated at how he was treated and sidelined before he died.

It’s unthinkable that our icon was treated worse than a bum. Only years after his untimely death that he is revered and elevated to what he’s known today.

If P. Ramlee lives in this era, will he still be treated like an unwanted bum?

We don’t know how to answer this question. We can only hope that we possess enough melayu boleh values to prevent history from repeating itself.

The Search for the Best P. Ramlee Movies

The purpose of this piece is not to dissect the P. Ramlee documentary or lament at his struggle. This piece is created because we are wondering if there’s a list that lists the top 10 P. Ramlee movies. Such a list will prove useful for the uninitiated who wishes to have a glimpse of P. Ramlee’s movies, or to anyone who wants to re-watch the best and top-rated movies.

A quick search on Google reveals one such list. But this top 10 P.Ramlee movies list looks spammy and has no supportive data. So what we did was to check out the definitive movie site IMDB where we found a database of P. Ramlee movies. Here, we sorted the movies by user ratings to give us the ten highest rated P. Ramlee movies .

We dare not say that this top 10 P. Ramlee movies list is authoritative since the number of voters is small. But at least it suggests the 10 best P. Ramlee movies out of the sixty-six.

IMDB’s Top 10 P. Ramlee Movies

Here is the top 10 P. Ramlee movies as voted by IMDB’s users (January 2011).

1.     Anakku Sazali

2.    Ali Baba bujang Lapok

3.     Sarjan Hassan

4.     Bujang Lapok

5.     Pendekar Bujang Lapok

6.     Ibu Mertuaku

7.     Tiga Abdul

8.     Seniman Bujang Lapok

9.     Labu dan Labi

10.  Madu Tiga

Source: http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0708422/filmorate

It’s not surprising that the award-winning Ibu Mertuaku is among the top 10. This tragic yet inspiring movie is our personal favorite, and we even have an Ibu Mertuaku review that offers a fresh, never-seen-before perspective.

P. Ramlee the Melayu Boleh Icon

A Malay entertainment icon imbued with the Melayu Boleh spirit, P. Ramlee had left us a legacy of 66 movies. The above top 10 P. Ramlee movies represent the best of his works for us to enjoy and contemplate upon.

Which P. Ramlee movie do you think is the best? Please leave a comment and tell us.